IT HAS BEEN 12 YEARS NOW WE WILL ALWAYS WONDER ABOUT HIS LIFE AND WHAT IT WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE! JULY WILL ALWAYS BE A HARD MONTH FOR OUR FAMILY. AT LEAST WE CAN LAUGH AND SMILE NOW WITHOUT GUILT
Staying Focused in a world that has been turned upside down is the hardest thing for any family! It has been a ” NIGHTMARE ” for us. To watch my kids suffer has been horrible. The pain all of us have felt has been nothing you can imagine. ( WORD TO YOU ) WHEN SOMEONE YOU KNOW HAS LOST SOMEONE THEY LOVE, MOST OF ALL A CHILD ! do not say ‘ what can I do’ just do it. Don’t say I know what you mean’ because you have no clue. This has made me change my way of expressing sympathy to anyone. A simple” I am sorry” and a big hug to go along with their tears is enough to show them how much you care.
As we sat in the hospital I begged God to take me instead of Justin, God had other plans for some reason. The “WHY ” we will never know.
Psalm 89:48 (NIV)
Who can live and not see death, or who can escape the power of the grave? :
- Colossians 3:3 (NIV)For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.
- Psalm 116:15 (NIV)Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.
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- It is hard to accept he is gone. LIFE AS WE KNOW IT NOW HAS TO GO ON, AND WILL. Until GOD says come hither!
On July the 23rd of 2010 our life changed forever. Justin took his ” Heavenly Journey ” never did we dream this would be our life ” THIS HAPPENS TO OTHERS NOT US ” (guess what) it happened to us. The task of learning to live now with a part of you that is gone is hard. With God, all things are possible, not always easy, but possible! How you ask? how do you not lose heart when you have lost one of the things you live for. A SON, GRANDSON, BROTHER, NEPHEW, COUSIN, AND FRIEND TO SO MANY! We are so glad we have wonderful memories of him. Looking at a picture and smiling or crying over it. Depends on how emotional we are on a particular day.
It has been ” TWO YRS ” since he was ripped from us. We are going to celebrate his Birthday today with him in our hearts. For he is in Heaven. Today I promise to smile and remember all the good times we had. I will be good to someone around me or that I meet, even if it means giving something away in his honor.
I would like to introduce you to ” JUSTIN A DAVIS ” Son of Johnny and Mia Davis from Oak Hill West Virginia, and brother of Samantha Rea Davis. And my grandson! He was the most loving giving young man with a big heart. Oh my gosh, his smile. his laughter and comical attitude would warm up the whole room. He had a passion for the less fortunate even for the 4 legged fur babies. We never knew what he was going to bring home next. One day he said to me I want a tiger or lion cub! I laughed and replied ” well you better get a darn good job because they eat more than you and Nash put together. And could them boy’s eat 🙂 

I THINK HE CAUGHT HIMSELF UP A “TREE” 🙂 ALWAYS PLAYING AROUND
Justin loved his family with a passion. He adored his little sister Sammie he would say” she is so beautiful”. He worried about her, he didn’t want the boys to be around her. He told me when she started to date or drive he would be following her around she wouldn’t know it. ( isn’t that sweet ) He would have been very proud of the young woman she is turning into. Samantha is 15 yrs old now and has her driving permit. Sammi has been a true rock for all of us, putting her own pain aside to help her Mom and Dad in their pain. Tell me that isn’t a very sensitive gal ? with wisdom beyond her years!
Justin loved his Uncle Brandon as if he were a brother, Brandon loved him like he was his own. Brandon didn’t have any children of his own for a long time, so he focused all his love on Justin and Sammie. Nonetheless, they weren’t all too happy when he had a child of his own Justin and Sammi had to share their” uncle BB ” which is what they called him. Even though Brandon had ” Hailey ” he still had time for them. Justin loved all the kids that came around. He loved to wrestle and play didn’t matter what age. Funny because they would all think they could take him, he was strong as an ox they couldn’t get to him! And of course, us gals love to watch all the older ones make a fool of themselves :).
When Justin was born it was a little scary because he had some lung problems. He was health netted to Charleston WV to women’s and children s hospital. He was in NICU for a while. God healed him and we got to bring our little bundle home with us. He was so beautiful, such a good baby. He just didn’t like to go to sleep. Justin’s poppaw Darren was the one person that could rock him to sleep. His mother was going to school plus working and his Dad worked a lot of hours so we had the pleasure of him spending a lot time with him in his first few years of life. Stayed all night at times. And always stayed with his other grandparents Holly and Belina Secrist on Saturday nights. He grew up helping them on their small but nice little farm, cutting wood, plowing up gardens, and bringing in goods from the garden. He loved to go four-wheeling in the grazing lands behind their house. The cows weren’t even afraid of the 4-wheeler. Justin was a very good soccer player. His favorite thing to do was go fishing, hunting, and just 4 wheeling in the woods, which he would do as long as he could. He was into motorcycle racing for a little while. I hope you don’t mind me going on and on about my baby boy!

AT THE CREEK SEE WHAT I MEAN

you can’t see me, can you?
He would follow BB( remember his uncle Brandon ) all over the place. Brandon was a young boy when Justin was born. He would take him outside and play with him, they would catch salamanders and all kinds of creepy things and bring them into the house. I dreaded what he would bring in next! Look at this he would say and of course, I would scream or go yuck!

he loved to play outside! look at that dirty face
Oh my! I almost forgot about the water. He loved to swim, boat, jet ski, and water ski. That boy could have been a fish. One time we were camping at Blue stone lake. His dad had the ski boat, and I had a pontoon boat. I decided to take the ski boat out.I said, “come on Justin let’s go for a ride”. I am sure glad he was brave enough to get on the boat with me that day. Everything was going good. We were pulling out from the dock, all was smooth running and I decided to kick it up a notch. You won’t believe what happen ( you guessed I almost sunk the boat ) When I floored that baby the nose went up in the air, water was coming in the back and I was scared. Justin said ” plane it down Mom maw” ( I said ) what the heck is that? You don’t have a plane on a pontoon boat all new to me. ( REMEMBER I HAD A PONTOON) He said, ” get up and let me have it “. I got up, he sat down behind the wheel, hit this little button and planned the boat right out as smooth as silk, and took us right back to the dock. Just a little fellow 6 or 7 years old! Isn’t that the sweetest picture in your head right now?

HE LOVED TO GO WITH HIS DADDY ” JOHNNY ” TWO YEARS OLD! MY HOUSE FOR CHRISTMAS
Our family loves Christmas. Justin was so much fun to watch! It was exciting just watching him open his presents. His eyes would beam and his smile would widen He was a boy he loved to work on cars and of course like his dad he took everything apart. It is Christmas of course there were lots of things for him to take apart. Sometimes it went back together right, sometimes not. I am sure you have been through that also if you have kids or grandkids.

Mia and Justin’s first Halloween isn’t he the cutest thing ever? Nothing like a mother’s love
Of course, we can’t leave out Halloween. He loved to have the house all spooky to scare everyone when they came in the door. I remember one year he was about 2, his Mom had him looking so adorable. When they arrived at our house Poppaw Darren was sitting on the porch with a scary mask on and it scared that baby to death. He had to take it off and hold him to just make him believe IT WAS NOT A MONSTER! It was poppaw Darren. Halloween was such a big thing back when he was little as well as when my kids were. We would walk for hours and have so much candy we couldn’t hardly carry it all. Is your mind back to when you did that with your kids? I know mine is. Just seeing all the little faces how cute they looked 🙂
As I told you he loved his sister. Sammi loves the great outdoors and she loves to ” wrench it “. He would be proud to know she is the # 1 pitcher for our home team. She is a natural ball player just like my Dad and Brother, and her Mother was very athletic. She is so beautiful and sweet, a little more on the quiet side than he was. When Sammie came along at first he was jealous. Being the only grandchild and baby in the family that was natural. But he still loved her so much. As he began to mature and she grew up, their bond became deeper and deeper. Mind you, they were always close. He didn’t realize how much Sammi looked up to him until one day he and I were talking out by the pool ( by the way the love of water in our family created a pool in their back yard that he helped build, he was around 14 ) I said to Justin, “Samantha really looks up to you”. I made mentioned to him that the choices he makes will make an impact on her life as well. I said, ” choose carefully what you do”. He was saying ( she better not do this and that ) I took that opportunity to let him know he was her role model. He was kind of shocked he said ” no she doesn’t Mommaw ” I said, “oh yes she does big boy, so don’t do anything you don’t want her to think it is ok to do”. he laughed at me and said Mommaw you are so goofy. Then he did his favorite thing and messed up my hair, gave me one of the big old bear hugs that always took our breath away. But I would love to have one again! He had so many that loved him and loved to be around him.
We are at the end of my story and I want to make sure I show his dad’s race car. That is where he ended up in life, drag racing, he loved it. He would tell me all I want to do is ” wrench it “. He was going to college to get his degree as a Diesel Mechanic. So Justin could have his dream his dad opened a shop for him to have a start in life. We won’t get to see him ” wrench it here “but I bet God has him working supper charging the chariots in Heaven. I bet he has his own race car up there. I believe God will let all our dreams come true when we get there. Most of all we can’t wait to see that boy.

what he loved to do most

So handsome he will be missed forever and ever